Quotes from James

“There is a better way to live. In order to be whole again, you must stop your resistance to internal pain and instead of running from trauma, you must learn from it.”

“You must abandon hope to be saved, as it keeps you waiting, projecting your savior onto others. Abandon "wishing", as wishful thinking will get you nowhere.”

“You must fight against the powers of chaos and bring about order within yourself. To understand your behaviour, to temper your actions and master yourself, rather than be a slave to your emotions.”

'It is always now, appreciate the present moment, live in the present, enjoy your life, connect with the present moment.'

'Don’t say I’ll be happy when, you’re always saying ill be happy when I get this done, achieve this and that – this will go on for ever and you will never get happiness – you have to access it now.'

'You’re always solving a problem, drop the problem and enjoy your life in the present.'

'Heal yourself, grow, be whole again.'

(Paraphrased by Alex as it was vocalised, not written down)

"Who has seen your whole life from it's beginning to now? Who has seen everything you've suffered, enjoyed, the mistakes you've made, the good things you've done. Who is the only one who can judge you? The only one who has seen everything? ... YOU. You are essentially the god of yourself. Your introspection is like your 'third eye', looking inwards. The eye that Odin gained, when he sacrificed his physical eye. The power to remember, is the power to regret, or reward oneself. Only you can truly do this. Your own mind is your inner eye. You create your vision of yourself, and thus your judgement. Only you can judge you."

(Paraphrased by Alex as it was vocalised, not written down)

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"Don't wait to find 'the one'; (the woman who will save you and mave everything right). She won't come and there's a reason why. YOU are your one. Only you have the power to heal yourself, to grow, and to achieve personal happiness, fulfillment and peace within your world. You must save yourself and earn your own happiness, no one can do this for you."